What you want isn't realistic. However my wife and I do about 2/3 of what you want. But only with help from the grandparents and it's still difficult to balance. We workout for 120 minutes a week, 60 for two days, work forty hours (remote).
What I find helpful is simply acknowledging that with a child you no longer will get everything done you want. We just try to set and accomplish one task per day. Sometimes that's a workout. Sometimes it's fixing something in the house. Sometimes it's that work project. But if we got one thing done per day we are happy.
That's with help from grandparents and remote work. You seem to want 3 things at least and I'm not sure what flexibility you have with work.
What I find helpful is simply acknowledging that with a child you no longer will get everything done you want. We just try to set and accomplish one task per day. Sometimes that's a workout. Sometimes it's fixing something in the house. Sometimes it's that work project. But if we got one thing done per day we are happy.
That's with help from grandparents and remote work. You seem to want 3 things at least and I'm not sure what flexibility you have with work.
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